I Have Learned . . . . .

• I've learned you cannot make someone love you.

    All you can do is be someone who can be loved.

    The rest is up to them.

• I've learned that no mater how much I care,

    some people just don't care back.

• I've learned that it takes years to build up trust,

    and only seconds to destory it.

• I've learned that it's not what you ahve in your life

    but who you have in your life that counts.

• I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes

    After that, you'd better know something.

• I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do

    but to the best you can do.

• I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important.

    It's what they do about it.

• I've learned that you can do something in an instant.

    that will give you a heartache for life.

• I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it,

    there are always two sides.

• I've learned that it's taking me a long time

    to become the person I want to be.

• I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.

• I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.

    It may be the last time you see them.

• I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

• I've learned that we are responsible for what we do,

    no matter how we feel.

• I've learned that either you control your attitude

    or it controls you.

• I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a realtionship is at first,

    the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

• I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done,

    regardless of the consequences.

• I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

• I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences.

    You've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

• I've learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish.

    Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it.

• I've learned that your family won't always be there for you.

    it may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you

    and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

• I've learned that no matter how good a friend is,

    they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you have to learn to forgive yourself.

• I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

• I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,

    but we are responsible for who we become.

• I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides

    even when I don't want to.

• I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't meant they don't love each other.

    And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

• I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of the actions.

• I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

• I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.

    It could change your life forever.

• I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

• I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children,

    they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

• I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

• I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.

• I've learned that no matter how many friends you have.

    if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the time you need them most.

• I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

• I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give,

    when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

• I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

• I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

• I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

• I've learned that the people you can care most about in life are taken from you to soon.

• I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meanings,

    it loses value when overly used.

• I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice

    and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.